Sympathy cards are my least favorite card to make. I try to tailor make them for each recipient instead of using ones I have on hand. It's hard to come up with just the right colors and images and sentiments that honor the person. And it's just sad. Sending a sympathy card means that someone is hurting a lot and someone I cared about it no longer here.
This card was particularly sad. I sent it to a very dear friend of mine whose husband (also a very dear friend) died of cancer. He was the same age as me. He and his wife were in a prayer group with my husband and me for a very long time. Our kids played together.
He was diagnosed with cancer a couple of years ago, but some of the symptoms were present many, many years ago and we prayed about them together. He was diagnosed a few years after we moved across the country. His prognosis was bleak, but he outlived the doctor's predictions. We got to see him more than we expected.
I chose the Butterfly Brilliance Bundle for this card and stamped "Sometimes there are no words..." from the retired Comfort and Hope stamp set. The butterflies seem like an apt metaphor for transitions.
I say that sympathy cards are my least favorite card to make, but they are also quite possibly the cards that have the greatest "paper hug" impact on friends and family who get them. I know cards had that effect for me when I was grieving. So I'll keep on sending them.






